May 9

Title: Wanting Great Kids (Matthew 20:20-28)

Small Group Discussion Guide

1. Redefining Greatness

Scripture:
“But whoever would be great among you must be your servant.” — Matthew 20:26

Question:
How has the world’s definition of greatness shaped your thinking about success, parenting, achievement, or recognition?

2. Praying for the Right Things

Scripture:
“For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.” — Romans 8:26

Question:
What are some ways sincere love for others can still lead us to pray for the wrong priorities?

3. The Cost of Following Christ

Scripture:
“Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.” — 2 Timothy 3:12

Question:
Why do you think Jesus connected greatness in His kingdom with suffering and sacrifice?

4. Submission to the Father’s Will

Scripture:
“Nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.” — Matthew 26:39

Question:
What area of your life is most difficult for you to surrender fully to God’s will?

5. Diagnosing Selfish Ambition

Scripture:
“For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice.” — James 3:16

Question:
How can you tell when your frustration or “righteous indignation” is actually rooted in selfish ambition?

6. Greatness Through Service

Scripture:
“Whoever would be first among you must be your slave.” — Matthew 20:27

Question:
What practical opportunities for unnoticed service has God placed in your daily life right now?

7. Learning from Christ’s Example

Scripture:
“Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 2:5

Question:
What specific attitudes or habits of Jesus do you most need to cultivate in your relationships?

8. Honoring Sacrificial Love

Scripture:
“Outdo one another in showing honor.” — Romans 12:10

Question:
Who are the faithful servants in your life whose sacrifices you may have overlooked or taken for granted?

9. Living as the Redeemed

Scripture:
“You are not your own, for you were bought with a price.” — 1 Corinthians 6:19–20

Question:
How should the truth that Christ purchased you with His blood change the way you use your time, energy, and abilities?

10. Choosing Usefulness Over Prominence

Scripture:
“Whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.” — Matthew 16:25

Question:
What would it look like for you to pursue usefulness in God’s kingdom instead of recognition in the world?